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Good Question: What’s the Most Loving Thing I Can Do for Myself Right Now?

Why I Love This Question The short answer is I’m writing this on a Virgo New Moon and when I googled what to reflect on, this is the question I got.¬†What’s more, it felt like the question I needed to be answering. Always the sign of a good question, when it hits a nerve. More […]

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Maven Matters

Maven Matters: On Not Being Perfect

For a long time, I doubted my credibility as an improvement blogger. Lots of my new habits didn’t stick. And the ones that do stick, it’s for four or five times per week, not daily. Not surprisingly I thought I was a bit of a failure. And an imposter. Somehow the fact I don’t meditate […]

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Quote Unquote

Quote Unquote: Amos Tversky

When you are a permissist and the bad thing happens, you live it twice. Once when you worry about it and the second time when it happens. What I LOVE about this quote is the worry comes first not second. That we live the worry in our minds, then live it in the physical reality. […]

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Maven Matters

Maven Matters: On Taking Up Space

First it was the conference where all the females prefaced their questions with “I’m sorry but” or “just a quick question”. Then it was the LEADERSHIP COACH at a training that raised her hand to ask a question or contribute to the discussion. This lady had valuable points to add but was acting like she […]

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Independent Explorations

Who I’m Envious Of

It’s probably not kosher to admit this (or use the word kosher for that matter) but there are people I’m envious of. Non ambitious types. Type Bs. Happy go lucky. You know, the go with the flow types. Not overly burdened with burning desire. I admire their lack of worry. The reduced stress from reduced […]